tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-70574489279651619342024-03-13T10:17:44.003-07:00Focused on the PositiveMariahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05970025346830340934noreply@blogger.comBlogger109125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7057448927965161934.post-38678329281734121722018-12-31T23:58:00.001-08:002019-01-01T07:00:01.715-08:00ReflectionHas it really been 2 years since I've written? It has. And for good reason. You see my friends, my life has been quite turbulent. Honestly, its been a roller-coaster, and I detest roller-coasters. I find myself sitting here on the eve of a brand new year, stepping off of this lengthy ride, reflecting. I've learned a lot. I think I am ready to share part of my journey, and what I have learned in the process with you.<br />
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First of all I've learned exactly how much I love my children. My love for them has been magnified so clearly and intensely that I see it in the most pure unfiltered form. There were days that my love for my children gave me the strength to survive when even the tiny action of <i>breathing</i> seemed too much for my tired soul. When I say I love my kids, I mean that with the weight of my entire being. I mean that they have been the answer to every single question I asked myself over this past year. They have been in every exhausted thought, every scar I hide, every tear I've cried. <b><u>I LOVE my children</u></b>.<br />
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What has happened you ask? My identity changed from a stay at home wife and mother, blogger, friend, aunt, sister, daughter, to a divorced working mom of three. Basically my entire world changed. And I was the one who changed it.<br />
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Some days it seems like my old life was just yesterday. I feel like sometimes an abundance of "new" makes time go by quickly. Yet other moments the days slowly lingered, weighed down by the emotional elements that poured down. I find it interesting that feelings of happiness and joy seem to make time flutter by, while moments of sorrow or pain drudge along relentlessly scraping and scarring the internal pieces of your soul. Just an observation. Back to what I've learned as I look back.<br />
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I've learned that friendship is a gift. People, individuals, are gifts. We like to sweep them together in broad categories, but the truth is every human being is unique. Some like the idea of belonging in a category, and they flourish in that particular part of the garden; others find strength in standing alone in the sun. Regardless, we all have experiences and perspectives that are intricately designed and make us unique. This is not a new notion by any means, but it is one that I've picked up on this past year and appreciate.<br />
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I've learned that emotions, though they have no physical responsibility like our lungs or our liver, can absolutely impact our physical well being. That concept is difficult for me logically. I have a hard time connecting the fact that something as intangible as "feelings" can have a very real and tangible affect on our bodies. I mean it makes sense now, but the legitimacy of that was hard for me to grasp. I am grateful for the relatively new acceptance of mental health and emotional well being that is popular now. I am a huge fan of therapy, open communication, and all forms of expression that rid the mind of the plaguing pain derived from emotional burdens.<br />
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I've learned that life changes. It just does. Regardless of your plans, your ability to handle it , your desire or lack of desire for it, it happens. And it's okay. As soon as you adjust and feel good about that change, it will happen again.<br />
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Finally I've learned that who you are, and who I am, matters. I don't mean our titles, or the hats we wear. I mean our core beings; what we do, and how we do it is important. So find out who you are, what is important to you, and why it is important; and make that a part of you. Find strength in it. Cultivate it. Help others find in within themselves.<br />
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I hope that as you reflect upon this past year you can spot the goodness that is not always apparent, and the opportunities disguised as challenges. Find your purpose. Accept life, grab a hold of it, and be kind.<br />
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I have decided that our society has grown LAZY. Myself included. The other night after the kids were in bed and dishes were done, the house was quiet and I debated about what I should do in my hour of heaven (the hour after the kids are in bed). <em>Go run on the treadmill, </em>I thought to myself. Oh man, did that appeal to me! I have it set up in my house, my work out clothes were clean and ready to go, and I seriously needed to run out the disappointment I felt from my poor test score earlier in the day. But I didn't. With all those incentives, I didn't.<br />
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Yes, I wanted to run, I wanted to do something hard and physical. However the complicated task putting on socks and tying my shoes changed my mind. <br />
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That my friends is laziness. <br />
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We have become a result oriented people obsessed with getting the quickest results in the easiest way possible, and are unwilling to put forth any real effort. How Sad! We excel at creating new technologies that advance our living conditions, but I'm afraid that we forget what really disappears with all of these conveniences; <span style="color: black;">AMBITION</span><br />
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The remote control, the microwave, netflix; we have let all of these conveniences get the best of us. Remember when we used to watch the credits at the beginning of movies? Or if you wanted to learn something you would spend an afternoon in the library searching topics and titles? Now Siri and Google answer all of our whims within seconds, with minimal effort on our part. L.A.Z.Y <br />
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What has this done to our society?<br />
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It has weakened our work ethic. We do not want to work for things anymore. We look for alternatives to work, instead of rolling up our sleeves and getting the job done. Sometimes we even spend more time looking for easier solutions than it would have taken to <em>Just Do It</em>. Our children are being taught about new technologies, and they are grasping on to them even faster than we did, but we are neglecting to teach them our own history of working hard and achieving goals that take time and dedication. <br />
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With all of the advancements that make life easier we soften. Our critical thinking skills crumble. Our persistence weakens. I am seriously afraid the fictional characters from the Disney movie Wall-E are our near future.<br />
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We need to slow down. We must bring back the skills and traditions that made us prosperous in the first place; ambition, diligence, patience, etc. The lack of patience has especially become a grand problem in our society. We want. We want it now. When we don't get it now we get frustrated, and angry, then hate grows. We have these expectations of how we want our experiences to go, namely fast and NOW, and we've let those expectations become more important than the people we interact with. You hear stories every day about people who get in conflicts over things like their order not being correct, or fast enough. It's only going to get worse unless we do something about it. This is a case where I believe the small and simple things will bring forth great things. That's where we start. With the small and simple. </div>
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This morning I was out working in my garden. It's one of my favorite spaces. My thoughts and plants grow simultaneously as I work. <br />
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Today my thoughts were caught up on the ability to grow vegetables vs. weeds. I try, and try, and try, to get my cucumbers to grow. But I have yet to produce a good cucumber plant. They very same night that they sprout up, they are gobbled up by ravenous creeping things.<br />
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As for the weeds, I put absolutely no effort in to growing them, in fact I put a lot of effort in to preventing them, and yet they still seem to pop up over night and thrive. They can grow where there is no water. They grow in the rocks. They grow anywhere and everywhere. <br />
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Why is it SO hard to be successful at growing and harvesting good crops, yet so easy to grow weeds? <br />
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I want to relate this to our thoughts. The ability to be happy and have good thoughts takes constant work. You must be proactive. The moment you relent negativity flourishes.<br />
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The one thing I noticed in the garden was that the weeds just sprout up on their own. Plants, however need to be purchased and planted. It's the same with our thoughts. Negative thoughts pop into our head all the time. They just do. They are random and rampant. <br />
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Positive thoughts also have to be "purchased" and "planted". By <em>being purchased</em> I mean the desire has to be there. We need to want it. We have to make that choice. Then we need to plant the seed of positivity. There are many ways we can do this; looking on the bright side, giving people the benefit of the doubt, choosing to smile instead of frown. <br />
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Instead of nurturing the negative, we need to start nourishing the positive and then let it bloom. <br />
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If a weed can grow in uncultivated soil, or even rock, then think of how well it would grow if it were watered and maintained. It is the same with negativity. We have to push out those negative thoughts as they arise, and not give them a chance to root. <br />
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Our society has taken a liking to finding fault, and sharing it with the world. We like to fuel the fire of negativity. <br />
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Pointing fingers has no benefits. <br />
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Putting others down gets you no where. <br />
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It just multiples misery. <br />
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But I know that kindness heals. Our choices matter, and if we choose kindness we can make a difference. We can teach others by example. And if nothing else, we will be happier. So my challenge to you is to give positivity a try. Cultivate kindness. See the difference it makes in your life. Then please share your experience. You can share it with me at <a href="mailto:focusedonthepositive@gmail.com">focusedonthepositive@gmail.com</a> and I'd be happy to post it on the blog. I will be trying my best as well. I'll let you know how it goes. Good luck!<br />
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If you enjoyed this post you might also like <a href="http://focusedonthepositive.blogspot.com/2015/05/store-up-sunlight.html">Storing up the Sunlight</a><br />
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Scrawny, awkward, buck toothed, pale, shy.<br />
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I remember people commenting on how "skinny" I was from the time I was a little, little girl. I remember having the desire to disappear, to be invisible. I started slouching and hunching over around 5. I'd give up on things quickly, or ask for help right away because I didn't think I was capable. Normal "fun" things for other kids were not fun to me. <br />
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Jump down from a rock? Nope. I'll sit and slide myself down, thank you very much. Jump off the swings? First off, I'll swing only at a safe, comfortable height, then slowly come to a stop and gently step off. I always chose the safest route. <br />
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People also scared me. My brother used to bring home "friends" for me to play with because I was so shy. I wouldn't play on a playground if other kids were there, I'd just sit and watch until the coast was clear. However, I did make friends. I was likeable, just unconfident. <br />
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That was the case through out school. Elementary, Junior High, and High School. I was a "nice"girl. I blended in to the background well. The slouching got worse when I got braces and headgear in my already terrible teen/tween years. (I still have nightmares about the headgear, no joke) I looked out for the little guy, and longed to be anyone but me. I was comfortable with a few, who could get my giggly, goofy side out; but froze in front of the rest of the population. I was quiet and polite, a perfect little girl. I never caused trouble. I was content to just sit and be quiet. <br />
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My one outlet was music. I didn't realize it until recently, but as a kid I'd go in my room, shut the door, turn up the music and figuratively sing my heart out. It was like a nice was of shouting, without anyone knowing. <br />
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That <em>was</em> me. <br />
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This is me. <br />
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I will be 35 in a couple of months, and I finally, <em><strong>finally</strong></em> feel comfortable in my own skin. For the first time in my life I don't feel the need to be valued from outside sources. I don't feel like that scared little 5 year old girl in a grown up body. I don't really care what others think of me, <em>and it's entirely freeing.</em> </div>
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Since I have let go of my hang ups I have realized few things about myself; I am smart. I am capable. I can do hard things. I don't need others to like me in order to like myself. </div>
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Once I let go of my fear I became empowered. I became a new person. I metamorphasized. (I know, that's not a word, but it fits.) Life is much better when you like yourself, and you believe in yourself. When you can depend on yourself instead of others for personal happiness. </div>
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So if you are not where you would like to be; if you have your own five-year-old-girl complex of some kind, don't worry. You can beat it. It took me almost 35 years. But its do-able and it's worth it. Just like the seed is capable of becoming the tree, you are capable of becoming what you desire. </div>
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Mariahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05970025346830340934noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7057448927965161934.post-86194155208751321002015-05-01T14:26:00.001-07:002015-05-02T06:33:24.693-07:00Store Up The SunlightJust a few days ago we celebrated my sons first birthday. It's been a busy year for us. Well, to be honest this has been the hardest year - no year and a half, of my life. Some of the struggles I have shared, but there have been some extremely difficult personal struggles as well. I've been doing a lot of cleaning lately, which I call therapeutic cleaning. For some reason purging the house of junk helps me feel ..... better, happier, more optimistic. It makes the chaos going on in my life feel less chaotic. Anyways, as I was cleaning I came upon a cute little solar dancing flower. <br />
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Since I found it I put it on the corner of the dresser, where it gets a bit of sunlight. I love to watch it and hear the tick, tick, tick, as it dances. I notice the silence on overcast days. I also notice that even just the tiniest bit of sunlight is all it needs to dance. Just as this flower stores up the sun to dance its happy dance, we too can store up the good things for the bad days. Just as people have food and blankets for emergencies we can also have a surplus storage of happiness to keep us afloat during times of stress or anguish. Because everyone has hard days. Everyone. <br />
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Take in the good that is given to us. If you're wearing sunglasses you can't see the full brightness of the sun, right? We need to take off our metaphorical sunglasses and see all of the goodness that is around us. It's in all of the little things. Someone held the door open - that's a good thing. Someone smiled at you as they walked by - another good thing. If we look for them they will not pass us by. Each positive thing we notice can become a brick that we add to our foundation of happiness. But we have to look for it, and not ignore it. <br />
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When we find those good things, hold on to them. Write them down, talk about them, be thankful for them. Put <em>them</em> on your FB timeline. Call your girlfriends to talk about them. Tell your kids about them. Don't let them be like a feather in the wind. Etch those good things in the stone of your memories!<br />
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A gratitude journal is a book that you use to write down all of the things you are grateful for. One of the things I've dealt with is insomnia. I tried everything I could think of to get some sleep but the only thing that helped was thinking about all the things I was grateful for. I would think about my day and make a long mental list and before I could even finish I would fall asleep, and stay asleep. A gratitude journal could be the perfect remedy for so many of life's trials.<br />
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Update time! So, in the last few months a lot has been going on. Here's the short version. Remember my sweet little baby boy, and what a struggle it was to get him? Well, the trials didn't end when he was born. When he was 2 months old I took him in for a routine doctors appointment. While we were there the doctor noticed something unusual and sent us to the hospital for x-rays of his head. Turns out the plates in his skull had already fused together leaving no soft spot, his head was not able to grow. Yikes! So, at barely 4 months old we went to Primary Children's Hospital for Skull Surgery. They had to remove a strip of his skull. It was stressful! <br />
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But while we were there we stayed at the most AMAZING place, the Ronald McDonald House. Talk about helping out in every way possible to get us through a hard time! They pretty much removed all of the normal daily stresses so we could focus on our baby. They have a kitchen open 24/7 stocked with food, lots of activities and toys for the siblings, and so much more. My kids LOVED staying there. They made such a difference to our family at an extremely stressful time. Because of this experience I have become a huge fan and supporter of the Ronald McDonald House and wanted to let you know how you can help the <a href="http://www.rmhc.org/season-of-giving">RMHC</a> help other families in their time of need. After all, it is the season of giving, and if you're looking for a charity to help this is definitely the one! <br />
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If you are interested there are so many different ways to help out this wonderful organization. You can help out personally by providing service (doing activities with the children, cooking food for the families, even the cleaning staff are volunteers), or you can <a href="https://donate.rmhc.org/SSLPage.aspx?pid=390">donate money</a> or <a href="http://www.rmhc.org/other-ways-to-help">items</a>. You can also donate your change with their <a href="http://www.rmhc.org/coinstar">Coinstar Collection</a>, at any of the green coin machines near you, or save your pop tops and donate them. I also highly recommend visiting a Ronald McDonald House if there is one near you. Just walk around and take a look at everything they do and see some of the families. I promise you, it will touch your heart. Here's a link about all the different ways you can <a href="http://www.rmhc.org/get-involved">get involved.</a> <br />
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As someone who has benefitted from this charity I can tell you that the RMH help real people in their times of need. If you decide to help them you will be doing a worthwhile service! I hope you will consider this during this holiday season. <br />
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Here's a for instance. I don't drink. (Alcohol) Never have. Never will. That's my choice. But that doesn't mean that I am going to walk up to you and tell you that you shouldn't drink. If you ask me, I will tell you my opinion, and I'll tell you why, but I'm not going to tell you what <strong>I</strong> think <strong>you</strong> need to do. See the difference?<br />
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Here are some of my thoughts about how we can keep our morals and standards without hurting others in the process.<br />
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Don't judge. Be aware of others and their needs but don't judge them. Offering advice when you see a need can often come off as judgmental instead of helpful. Sometimes it's best not to offer advice when you observe something that <em>you</em> think needs help. It might be best to wait and offer your advice at a different time, or not at all. Also keep in mind that everyone is in a different place. What works for you might not work for them, or interest them, or even be important to them. Again, don't judge!<br />
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It is good to have moral and standards. It's good to share those thoughts and beliefs. Just try not to do it in a harmful or hurtful way. Most importantly love those around you, even if they are different than you. <br />
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<br />Mariahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05970025346830340934noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7057448927965161934.post-35257442629957020732014-09-22T12:59:00.001-07:002014-09-22T13:17:18.451-07:00Tunnel GardensHi Friends! It's the first day of Autumn and I thought I'd share something awesome with you. I LOVE to garden. I recently learned about a way to garden all year long. Yes, All Year Long!!! How amazing is that! I have seen it with my own two eyes and had to share it with you. <br />
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My friends started this company, it's called Tunnel Gardens. These portable tunnels fit over your garden, require no additional heating, very little water and grow plants beautifully all winter long. Here is a short 1 minute video showing you their garden last winter. <br />
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Here is their website if you are interested in ordering a tunnel for your garden at home. The pricing is extremely reasonable, they have several different sizes available, and they ship right to you. Please take a moment to check them out, if you are a gardener like me it will be well worth your time!<br />
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Mariahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05970025346830340934noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7057448927965161934.post-55022738252409595982014-07-30T21:11:00.001-07:002014-07-31T06:34:46.452-07:00Update: PoTS, Pregnancy, and MiraclesHi guys!<br />
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Forgive me for taking so long to write and update you all. The last time I wrote I was sick, very sick, and pregnant. Well we had our baby, a beautiful baby boy, and my illness went away! Hooray!!! Here is a picture so you can oooh and ahhhh. <br />
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Well you heard right, my <a href="http://www.dysautonomiasos.com/#!untitled/c1k5s">PoTS</a> just went away. Shortly after I gave birth my body went back to normal. What a miracle! (What a mysterious condition) Boy am I glad it is gone. The other day I ran up the stairs and stopped to realize that not too long ago that was an <u>impossible</u> task. What a relief that I am symptom free! </div>
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As I look back on the last several months I realize I have much to be grateful for. Grateful first and foremost for my beautiful son. I cannot begin to tell you how much I love him and what a joy he has been in our family. We all treasure him. I am grateful to be independent again. I am grateful to be physically active again. I am grateful to be surrounded by wonderful supportive people. </div>
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Glancing back, I can see some of the miracles that took place. The first has to do with my husbands job. My husband started a new job shortly before all of this happened. I have to admit I was weary of him taking this new job. His earnings would be half, <strong>HALF</strong>, of what he was making. That's a big deal. But it turns out his new job was part of Heavenly Father's plan. At his old job he worked long tiring hours and I never knew when he'd be home. The distance of his job sites were varied also. Sometimes he'd be an hour away, sometimes 3 or 4 hours away. With his new job he is less than a mile away, working normal business hours. When things got bad and I needed him home in a moments notice, he was there. This NEVER would have been the case if he still had his old job. I believe that this is an example of God knowing our needs before we do. </div>
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Another miracle was when the baby was delivered. There were some complications. All of a sudden they were calling for doctors, the room was tense, and I found out we would be having an emergency C-section. During all of the chaos I was completely calm. This is NOT my personality. I do not react well to last minute change, especially at a time like that, but I felt peace and comfort. The thoughts; "there's nothing to worry about", "everything is going to be fine", "trust in the doctors" kept gently whispering to me to calm me down. I believe those feelings of peace came from Heavenly Father. I was not alone in those moments of distress. He comforted me when I needed comfort. </div>
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I have to admit the last several months have brought about a great deal of physical and mental stress. I would not ask to go through this again, nor would I wish it on anyone. But as I look back I can see some good. I can see God's hand in my life. I have much to be grateful for, and I because of these experiences I believe in modern day miracles. Thank you for your patience with me over the last few months, in my lack of posts. I hope you are all doing well!</div>
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Mariahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05970025346830340934noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7057448927965161934.post-82127632650148071352014-03-06T15:42:00.001-08:002014-03-07T08:38:02.167-08:00Learning How to Live with Physical LimitationsHere's some background for this post. I am a wife and mother in my early 30's with 2 kids and one on the way. This is my 6th pregnancy, so we've had some pleasant and unpleasant experiences. Pregnancy for me is difficult. It's just not a sure thing until there is a healthy baby in my arms.<br />
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So we have 2 beautiful girls (7&3), and are pregnant with a boy, yay! In this pregnancy however I have encountered difficulties that I have never faced before. Somewhere early in the 2nd trimester I started feeling weak, too weak to even stand up. My heart would race and my body wasn't strong enough to keep me upright. Then I had a set of very severe chest pains that brought me to the floor. The next day I was too weak to do anything, and passed out at home with my 3 year old next to me. (she was safe, I had her on my bed with me reading books because I knew I was not well) That was the beginning of it all. </div>
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It took several weeks, tests, doctors and specialists, but we finally figured out I had something. I was diagnosed with <a href="http://www.potsuk.org/">PoTS</a>, <a href="http://www.dysautonomiasos.com/#!untitled/c1k5s">Postural tachycardia syndrome</a>, and quite a bad case of it. Due to this illness I am very limited in my physical abilities. Let's see, I am able to sit up with my legs elevated. Fun! And.....yeah, that's about it. Of course I do get up, gotta use the bathroom, etc. I'm a mom of two kids too, so I get up to tend them too, not very much, but sometimes. And I get to get out of the house for my frequent doctors appointments. </div>
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I've been dealing with this all together now for 2-3 months, and have 2 months left to go. I think I'm finally at the point where it feels good to talk about it. I'm past the figuring out what's wrong phase, and the dealing with the diagnosis phase. I am ready to open up to get out what's inside of me. I hope that this will help me deal with what I am going through, and possibly help others in similar circumstances. So if you are struggling with physical limitations, or are a family member or friend to someone who is, here are some of the thoughts and feelings I have had through out my experience that I hope will be helpful to you in your process.</div>
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If you have something to add I would love it if you shared it in the comments. <br />
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I have a confession to make. I've been in my pj's, laying on the couch, feeling lousy for weeks, almost months now. Yup, I'm pregnant. Thus, no new posts, (it's hard to be positive when you feel ... pregnant) Haven't even tried to keep up with the blog. My apologies. </div>
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I know the holiday season is in fact the busiest season of the year and what I am asking will be hard to do, but let's try to make our calendars a little more open. Open to help others at the last minute, to hear their cries for help and be there when they need us. Some of the greatest blessing come when we are helping others in need. Some of the best lessons we can learn can be in moments of service. We can feel truly important when we are able to help others in a way that they could not do themselves. </div>
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I can testify of the love and gratitude we felt toward those that helped us. Please be open to service. Be looking for those that need you. Be available, even at a moments notice. If you do, I believe you will be blessed, just as much as the people you are helping. </div>
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Mariahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05970025346830340934noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7057448927965161934.post-64200987775720966672013-09-20T14:18:00.000-07:002013-09-20T14:18:49.222-07:00Difficult Blessings<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Ever receive one of those blessing in your life that requires frequent "this is a blessing" reminders? Short term thorn-in your-sides, that eventually become long term joys. We are experiencing a couple of those in our family. Though they are private experiences, I thought I'd laugh with you all about it without sharing any details. I think it's quite hilarious that there are things you want, you hope for in your life, and when you get them the slow uphill climb of difficulty sets in. <br />
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For instance, <i>for me</i> child bearing is extremely difficult. No, I am NOT announcing a pregnancy here, just using this as an easily relate-able example. Children are a wonderful gift and blessing. We pray for them, and long for them. But actually getting pregnant and staying pregnant, (for me) is not fun. It means months of illness, tests, stress, and accepting help from others. Pregnancy is definitely one <u>difficult</u> blessing. But it is absolutely worth every hardship! Children are a beautiful gift and there is nothing in the world like loving and being loved by a child. <br />
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I would also include schooling in the difficult blessing category. What a blessing higher education can be. But there are many moments where you have to remind yourself, "This is a good thing", "It will be great in the end" or "It WILL be over one day!". <br />
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So if you have a moment, please humor me and share one of your previous "difficult blessings". It will help me get through mine, and it's always fun to laugh at things from the past. Thank you for sharing your experiences and laughing with me. You were laughing <i>with </i>me right? Just Kidding.<br />
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Have you noticed that each person on the Earth is unique. We have our own physical characteristics. Some of us have red hair, some have brown eyes, some are tall. We also have different personalities. Some are shy, stubborn, fearless. Some characteristics we were born with, and some we receive through our experiences.</div>
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To make us even more unique, we all have different talents or gifts. Each and every one of us have multiple talents or gifts. Typical gifts are things like: musical ability, culinary skills, artistic abilities, but there are also gifts not as obvious. <br />
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I think that when we take a moment to find out what our own gifts are a few wonderful things will happen. First, our confidence and self worth increases. Yay! Don't we all need a little confidence boost! I know I used to think that because I didn't have an obvious talent like <span style="-webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969);">"Singing Sally" </span>my worth was less than hers. Not so! We all have value. And when we realize what our gifts our self worth will increase.<br />
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Second, we will use our gifts to help others. If you are a good listener look for opportunities to help others by listening to them. That not only makes you feel useful, but helps those in need. Double blessing!<br />
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In July we celebrate Independence Day and Pioneer Day here in the South Western United States. To me those holidays are important because of the many sacrifices that were made for greater causes. In the days of the pioneers, people were courageous and unwavering. Most everything they did had tremendous value and purpose. <em>Where has that gone?</em> <br />
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When was the last time you or I were passionate about something? Yes, I did try really hard to get my finger nails perfect, I <em>passionately</em> shooed the kids away as I applied the oh-so-cute polka dots, but that's not what I'm talking about. <br />
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Seriously folks, a lot of work has been done for us by our ancestors, and in return we are.... casual and laid back??? They lived and died to give us so many blessings and I feel like we have totally dropped the ball. We hardly remember what their struggles were, and at times even mock the things that they worked so hard to give us. <br />
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Sure it is great to live nowadays when everything is done at the touch of a button. But let's not get so caught up in the trends of today that we forget <strong>why</strong> we are here and <strong>how</strong> we got here. <br />
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I personally am perturbed with the lack of values of the day. It is a frustrating thing to teach my kids right from wrong, when the world thinks wrong is right. So here's an idea, let's follow the example of our ancestors and put forth real effort in to something. And hopefully something of great value. <br />
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I'm not saying stop what you are doing and go save some dolphins. In fact that's the opposite of what I am saying. I am saying today for just a moment stop. Stop and think about what is really important. And then figure out a way to share that with others -through your actions. And then stop doing things that are contrary to what you believe is important. That's it. That's how we get back to civility. One person at a time doing what they believe is right. That is enough to impact others. <br />
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Alright, that's it. I'll get off my soapbox for the day. I just like the kindness and purpose that I imagine life had long ago when a handshake, your name, or your word meant something. I don't want to go back to churning butter, but I wouldn't mind life with a little more curtsies and a little less curtness. <br />
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As always I am curious to hear your thoughts. Please comment. <br />
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Hey Guys! I am doing my first Give Away today Monday July 15th at my Facebook page. I made a really cute Owl Prayer Board to help you remember the people you know who need prayers, you could also use it as a to-do board etc. It's 8x10 and it comes with everything you need, papers, pins, etc. <br />
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All you have to do is like my Facebook page, or share this give away on facebook with your friends. Pretty easy. It is open today Monday July 15th until midnight. Good luck! <br />
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Mariahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05970025346830340934noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7057448927965161934.post-29091838705012679812013-07-09T20:55:00.001-07:002013-07-09T20:57:55.599-07:00A Mother's Purpose<div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Yes, I have participated in this latest practically-perfect-mom trend, until I remembered what my real purpose as a mother and wife is. The most important task I have is to teach, nurture, and love my children. Everything else is secondary. <strong>Even the cleaning</strong>. </div>
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As most of you know I officially became an American citizen this year, so this is my first real Independence Day!<br />
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A few days ago my family and I returned home from a vacation, in which traveling by car for 14 hours <em>each way</em> was required, and may I tell you this truly is a beautiful country to live in. <br />
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We travelled through the desert and the prairies, and it was all stunning! What a blessing it is to live in a country so richly blessed, so vast and beautiful, and so abundant in freedoms!<br />
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Mariahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05970025346830340934noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7057448927965161934.post-45100979797999065902013-06-09T12:05:00.001-07:002014-07-26T12:12:44.060-07:00Being Happy in Unhappy CircumstancesBelow is an article I wrote for the Good News Network. If you haven't checked out the site take a second to do so. It's a website that shares only good news from around the world. Their link is on my side board. <br />
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It seems that every day life is getting more and more difficult. For everyone. We no longer have to turn on the t.v to see sad stories anymore. Yes, hard things are happening. But that doesn't mean that <i>we</i> have to become hard. I believe that we can be happy even in unhappy circumstances. How is that possible? <span style="color: black;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"> In her book The How of Happiness </span></span><span style="-webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); color: black;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sonja_Lyubomirsky" style="background-image: none; text-decoration: none;" title="Sonja Lyubomirsky">Sonja Lyubomirsky</a> concludes </span></span><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">that 50 percent of a given human's happiness level is genetically determined (based on twin studies), 10 percent is affected by life circumstances and situation, and a remaining 40 percent of happiness is subject to self control. Isn't that interesting! Only 10 percent is affected by life, and 40 percent is subject to self control. I find that amazing, and contrary to popular belief. If that is true, then we do have the ability to choose to be happy. So, how do we do that? </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br /></span><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">1. Help Others. Feeling down about yourself, your life??? The best remedy for that, in my opinion, is doing something for someone else. Seriously, it's like magic. Helping someone else has the power to eliminate your own sadness. And it's not just by doing grand acts, sometimes small kindnesses bring the greatest relief. Like the familiar quote says, "If you see a friend without a smile give him one of yours". Sometimes that's all it takes. </span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br /></span><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">2. Be optimistic. The definition of optimism is "A </span><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="text-align: left;">tendency to expect the best possible outcome or dwell on the most hopeful aspects of a situation." Now, sometimes it's hard to "expect the best possible outcome", but I like that second part, <i>dwelling on the most hopeful aspects of a situation.</i> Ahhh, dwelling. We are all prone to dwell on things now and then. Why not embrace it by dwelling on the good instead of the bad! See the good in situations. Look for it. Write it down. Be thankful for it. Tell others the good things going on instead of the bad. If you can make that a habit, you'll be much happier. </span></span>"I can complain because the rose bushes have thorns or rejoice because the thorn bushes have roses", J. Kenfield Morley. Be optimistic!<br />
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3. Don't give up. Take a break. Have a cry. Call your BFF. But DON'T QUIT. Here is something that gives me the endurance to keep going.<br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">When the road you're trudging seems all up hill,</span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">When the funds are low and the debts are high,</span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,</span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">When care is pressing you down a bit,</span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><em>Rest if you must</em>, <strong>but don't you quit</strong>...</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Success is failure turned inside out.</span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,</span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">And you never can tell how close you are,</span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">It may be near when it seems so far,</span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit.</span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">It's when things seem worst that you must not quit.</span><br />
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Don't give up. You are strong. You can get through it. Believe in yourself, and have faith.<br />
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I believe that even though life is difficult we can still be happy. Without pretending. Without ignoring our feelings. We can be truly happy on the inside if we help others, embrace optimism, and keep putting one foot in front of the other. Good luck to you with all you're facing. May you find happiness during the trial. <br />
<br />Mariahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05970025346830340934noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7057448927965161934.post-59520272386331659392013-06-06T13:44:00.002-07:002013-07-13T18:26:04.521-07:00The Walls My Family Lives WithinSo, I started writing a post today, and ended up writing a poem. Strange. This poem had nothing to do with what I was going to write about. But somehow it ended up coming out of me. I am no poet. But here is what I wrote. <br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Cambria','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ascii-theme-font: major-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: major-latin;">It is these things that make my house a special place to me. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Cambria','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ascii-theme-font: major-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: major-latin;">for my little roaring lions on the days they're feeling brave.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Cambria','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ascii-theme-font: major-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: major-latin;">where you can spy a ladybug, or hear the robins sing.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Cambria','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ascii-theme-font: major-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: major-latin;">There's a front porch for us to gather, and greet friends passing by.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Cambria','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ascii-theme-font: major-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: major-latin;">And soft green grass to lay in as we gaze up at the sky.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Cambria','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: major-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: major-latin;">But my heart sees more than just the walls my family lives within.</span><br />
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by Maria Ellsworth<br />
<br />Mariahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05970025346830340934noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7057448927965161934.post-90493860028076038352013-06-04T19:22:00.000-07:002013-06-10T14:08:26.344-07:00Squeal!Hey guys, guess what? GNN, the good news network, posted an article I wrote. It has my picture and little blurb and everything! Please go check it out, write a comment, and show your support.<br />
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Mariahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05970025346830340934noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7057448927965161934.post-44152880240746148492013-05-20T07:56:00.003-07:002013-06-10T14:09:00.908-07:00My Conversion StoryA couple of weeks ago I was asked to prepare to be a speaker at church. I am NOT good at giving talks, or doing anything that involves an audience. I AM a fainter and a shaker. Needless say I do not volunteer for these things. However the topic I was given about was something I enjoy talking about because the spirit always takes over and testifies. Plus, there were 5 speakers, so I only had to speak for 7 minutes! So, yesterday was the big day, and it turns out I did fine! I believe that it was totally due to me being obedient and doing what I was asked, and the fact that I had <u>complete</u> faith that if I was supposed to speak God would help me do it. And he did. <br />
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For those interested here is a copy of my talk. Do not feel obligated to read it. But I know some of you will be interested in what I said. It is about my conversion, and some of the teachings of the church that helped me gain my testimony. Here it is:<br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">In 1995 two missionaries knocked on the door of a home while serving in the small town of Salmon Arm, British Columbia, Canada.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The mother reluctantly let them in, and over a period of time was taught the Gospel of Jesus Christ, along with her two children.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I would like to share with you a few ways the Gospel of Jesus Christ has blessed my life when those two missionaries visited my home years ago.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">I was 14 years old and I took the discussions with the missionaries very seriously. I didn’t want to get baptized just because my mom was.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I wanted to know for myself that it was the right thing to do.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It was a few months after my mom and brother were baptized that I received the answer to my sincere prayers, that the information I had learned from the missionaries was true.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I was baptized 3 days after my 15<sup>th</sup> birthday.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">What is most inspiring to me about my conversion was that at the age of 14 I received such a strong witness that the church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints was true.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is not hard at all for me to believe that God answered the prayers of Joseph Smith when he was a young man, because I knew that he too had answered my prayers when I was young.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I would like to take a few minutes to share with you some of the wonderful truths I learned from the missionaries that helped me gain a testimony of the gospel.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">First, they taught me that I am a child of a Heavenly Father.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I was 14 at the time, and felt in a vague way that there was a God, and that he knew of my existence. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The only stories about God that I knew were; the commandments, and the story of Abraham and Isaac.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>So, for the first time I was taught, and taught by the spirit.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I felt the spirit testify that there is a God, he is my Father in Heaven, and that he loves me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I now know that we are all His spirit children, literally the sons and daughters of God.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He has created us in His image.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He is the Father of our spirits, and we call Him our Heavenly Father.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">I had never heard the term Heavenly Father before.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I immediately felt it was an appropriate name for him.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I felt the depth of his love for me, and for all of mankind.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Because I have the gospel, I now believe as the scriptures say, "that nothing shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Jesus Christ our Lord."<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Romans 8:38-39<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">I was taught that there was a pre-earth life, where we existed as spirits in Heaven before we came to earth.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Before we were born everyone who has lived or will live on earth, lived with God in heaven as spirits. In the “pre-earth life,” each of us were individuals with a divine nature and destiny.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It was in the pre-earth life that Jesus was chosen to be our Savior.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">I also learned that Heavenly Father created a plan to overcome sin and death to return to his presence.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It’s called the plan of salvation or the plan of happiness.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Those who follow this plan are promised “immortality and eternal life” or unending happiness with God and our families in heaven. This is what God wants for all of us.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Following the plan of happiness is easier when we do the simple things, like reading the scriptures, going to church, praying, and serving others. Jesus Christ was the perfect example of following God's plan.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">I learned that because we are human, we are not perfect and are prone to sin.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Sin results in the withdrawal of the Holy Ghost. It makes the one who sins unable to dwell in the presence of Heavenly Father, for “no unclean thing can dwell with God” (1 Nephi 10:21).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Being separated from God by sin is called spiritual death.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We can overcome sin through sincere repentance, and faith in the Savior's atonement.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>His Atonement, or sacrifice, can wash us clean of our sins and make us worthy to return to God’s presence. Christ’s sacrifice and Resurrection also allows us to overcome physical death.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Because of His Atonement, all people will be resurrected, and those who obey His gospel will receive the gift of eternal life with God.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Lastly, I learned what the purpose of this life is.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In Abraham 3:25 it says, "And we will prove them herewith to see if they will do all things whatsoever the Lord their God shall command them".<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We are here to be tried and tested, to see if we will keep Gods commandments.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We are here to gain a physical body and learn to choose between good and evil. We are here to do the work that God has for us to do, like sharing the gospel.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And we are here to prepare ourselves to live with God again with our eternal families.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You can imagine how valuable it was for me, as a teenager, to know these things.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">The gospel of Jesus Christ has been such a blessing to me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Because the gospel was shared with me I now know who I am, where I came from, and what my purpose is.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I know that life does not end with death.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I know that I can live again with my family, Heavenly Father, and Jesus Christ.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Because I have the gospel in my life I have the tools I need to raise my children in the turbulent times of today.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I have the added confidence of knowing that good will prevail.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I do not have to fear or worry about what is going on around me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Of everything I have been given in my life, I am the most grateful for the gift of the gospel.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I love my Heavenly Father, and Savior Jesus Christ.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I testify that your life can also be blessed by following the teachings of Christ which are found only in the Gospel of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I say these things in the name of Jesus Christ.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Amen.</span></div>
<br />Mariahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05970025346830340934noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7057448927965161934.post-82028757990617248632013-05-03T13:41:00.000-07:002016-09-23T12:44:16.161-07:00The mending pileIt's that time of year again. T.shirt and shorts weather, find the bottle of sun screen weather, time to put away the hot chocolate weather. This is the season when I get out my pen and paper and make my project list. (yup, I'm a list writer) And this tends to be a long list.<br />
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Today I am going through clothes. Getting rid of clothes that don't fit, making sure we have clothes that do fit, and mending clothes. That darn mending pile seems to grow just as rapidly as my children. My daughter has several pairs of pants that have holes in the knees. They have been in the mending pile for quite some time now. If we're in a jam, (laundry day) and she has nothing to wear I'll let her wear them to play in, then after they're washed back in the mending pile they go. But today while doing the laundry I decided I was sick of looking at them. They needed to, <em>deserved</em> to be fixed once and for all.<br />
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So now I ask you... What is in your mending pile? <br />
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What have you been ignoring, or waiting for the right time to fix? <br />
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Your heart?<br />
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That is the question that stole my thoughts today. What is in <i>my </i>mending pile? A challenge I pose to us all is to try to mend something on our list. If that is to difficult, perhaps think of a step or two that we can do to get closer to being whole. May you have the strength and desire to do so. Good luck!<br />
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<br />Mariahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05970025346830340934noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7057448927965161934.post-2697089056216626702013-04-24T13:09:00.000-07:002013-06-10T14:09:36.535-07:00New Quote Designs!Hey guys, guess what? I've started designing quotes! I am totally excited. It took me a while to figure out the new program I'm using, so this first one is a little bland, but there will be more to come soon. Here it is, check out my first piece of work. <br />
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This is a special scripture to me. It's one I whole heartedly believe in. I hope you enjoy it. I'm looking forward to sharing more with you!<br />
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Here's the second one I finished. I love this quote about gratitude.<br />
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<br />Mariahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05970025346830340934noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7057448927965161934.post-91123919073514663592013-04-22T13:21:00.000-07:002013-06-10T14:10:14.895-07:00Look at me! I'm crafty! Remember my last post about the prayer board??? Well, I made one! Yup, all by myself. And guess what else? I like it! Check it out.<br />
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I used an old frame, it's one of those $5 frames from Walmart, it was missing the glass and needed to be used in a project. I painted it black, then used a scrap of fabric and stuffed it with fluff. <br />
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Then I made that little pin cushion, hot glued it on along with the little envelope, stuffed it with paper, added stickers (I don't have a criket) and voila! Not too shabby if I say so myself. With so many people in my prayers, this will come in handy. And it's cute too. <br />
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Mariahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05970025346830340934noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7057448927965161934.post-85583933443764920592013-04-17T20:34:00.002-07:002013-07-13T18:31:34.897-07:00Prayer board craftHey friends, here's an idea I found on Pinterest that I wanted to share with you all.<br />
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It's a prayer board. <br />
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I thought this was a great way to remember those who need our prayers. The link on Pinterest doesn't take you anywhere (it says it's a suspicious link), but you pretty much get the idea by looking at it. <br />
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That's it. Just wanted to share this thoughtful craft with you. Have a great day! Mariahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05970025346830340934noreply@blogger.com2